Occam’s razor in marriage means the simplest explanation is usually the right one. If things feel hard, it is not because one of you is perfect and the other is terrible. It is because you are both difficult in your own ways. You both bring baggage, defenses, blind spots, and habits that clash. The sooner you can both see that, the sooner you can stop playing hero and villain and start working on being a team again. | Dr. Psych Mom