Planning a wedding can be stressful and overwhelming, and this is a great reminder that regardless of everything else, it should remain a celebration of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s love.

Groom-to-be Benny Blanco’s fear of flying may ground his wedding plans with songbird Selena Gomez, concerned sources say. The music producer — born Benjamin Joseph Levin — and the pop princess turned actress began dating two years ago and are planning a ceremony in the fall.

Selena Gomez revealed in a video for makeup brand Rare Beauty that, instead of a cake at her wedding, she wants biscuits and gravy.